Here I go….. Again posting
an article almost after a long gap of 23 months….phew….The topic that I have
chosen to write this time around is “CONNECTION”…
It took almost 2 years for
the Get Set Go moment…but the CONNECTION with the ONE who matters the most was
always On and On and On……
Just listening to the word
CONNECTION it raises goose bumps in me….then it may be with any body...
In this age of Tweets, Re Tweets and
Posts on Walls if Connection is not there then you are no longer there
literally you are GONE!!
If you see your life
closely, then you are connected with some one or other in Your own special way…Even
if the person is close or far you can still feel that “CONNECTION” if U want to
feel it!!!
Wikipedia defines the word
CONNECTION as – “A way of specifying a derivative of a geometrical
object along a vector field on a manifold.”
But in a layman’s language
it’s something more relative than above definition…
So what is that connects
people?
Is it the common things
you have with them?
Is it the Similarities?
Is it the similar
DISLIKES?
Is it the way you Think?
Is it the way you Live?
Is it the Way you Dress
Up?
Is it the Music you Like?
Is it the Food you Like?
Is it the Fashion Sense
you Like?
OR
May be all of the above or
more than that…
But what matters the most
is the Skill with which you can keep the Connection Going…for instance take the
case of two best friends who know each other inside out, but if one fine day
suppose person ‘A’ says something in anger or frustration to person ‘B’ and if
that is not taken well by person ‘B’ then it does not take even a mini second
to break the bonding and the Connection goes for a complete toss…haven’t we
seen this in our day to day lives?
For me the Connection
should be Unbeatable, Unshakeable, and the one which will stand through tough
times. Anyways its so easy to support each other when all things are going Rosy
Rosy, Mushy Mushy but when things go Honkey Donkey then no one sees each
other…its so strange and unfair, the Connection that one has built up needs to
be Exhibited in such tough times, but it completely goes for a toss..
So now the challenge is
how to maintain this Connection?
For this some reverse
thinking may help, I feel for starters it is to be understood why one needs to
be Connected and with Whom?
WHY – So that U are not
left alone in this huge world at the time you need someone…So that U don’t get
lost in your own misery…So that U don’t bother about the downs of life…So that
U don’t get bored with Your own company.
WHOM – This is definitely
the most important part, well it should be definitely with some one who will be
with U even when the time is tough, when U are in Roaming Zone or when U are
completely Discharged…rather I would even go to an extend and say the One who
stays Connected even with out a HANDSET….just set UR Heart and Go On and On and
On….
Really if U see in this
world, U are Connected with every little thing in the creation, in this way U
are Connected to the Trees, Birds and Animals too. U can actually feel that
Connection when U are Completely Hollow and Empty from Inside…
Now another challenge that
arises is, how to remain Hollow and Empty from Inside when the world out is so
Shallow and Filled up with negativity…Well that again depends on person to
person. Different people have different ways to chillax. Some find hanging out
makes them relax, while some get engrossed too much into their daily routine
and hence they don’t have time to think anything else. Whatever it is, saving UR Mind at any cost is the
key factor.
Mind can’t be controlled
from thinking anything, but definitely it can be cultivated into some creative
activities and welfare of people around. The company of friends, people that
you keep around you is very very very damn important. As it makes U or breaks U
completely.
One interesting aspect
over here is that, as we grow in our life, we move on to different places, we
undertake different tasks, we change our outlook towards life, we meet
different people. Now not always do all people behave in a fixed pattern with
you.. Different people behave differently, but if U get swayed away by them,
then again U feel lost out with the Connection that U want to have. Moreover I
truly and firmly believe in the fact that people come in to your life have a
specific role to play. Some people teach U a hard lesson, Some people Uplift U,
Some people guide U, Some people make U Strong, Some people Irritate U, Some
people make U feel Jealous, Some people Love U and Some Hate U…The problem
begins when we forget their role and get stuck in with them. If you got to save
your mind from people the best way is to realize the fact that they are just
here to play their role in YOUR movie called as YOUR LIFE!! They will do it and
walk away from it too.
The next thing that keeps
your mind at bay is the Situations that U are in your life. Well again the best
way to get out of it is to realize that, Everything is going to change so this
situation in your life will also change. So no point in building castles in the
air when you are too happy and jumping up and down and also no point in getting
depressed when the situation is pathetic.
After People and
Situations the next immediate is the Things that you possess or don’t!! It
happens many times that when someone gets something then U want to have the
same thing, in spite of the fact that U need it or not. So here again the trick
to save your mind is to realize that Desire whether fulfilled or unfilled leads
to frustration!!
Well I could go On &
On & On…but really can there be end to this topic called as Connection??!! Certainly
not with me!!! Well for me it will happen when I breathe out my last breath..
P.S. -à>> the above post is dedicated to all those who have
touched my life in some way or the other till date!! May U all Prosper in your
lives and make other people around U happy…and keep them CONNECTED!!!!
4 Comments:
Kadakkk!!! Reconnected with your blog again. haha..
Completely agreed mitra and with WHOM to connect tohh ekdum experiencee see he aayega..:)
Keep posting mitra! Loved IT.
"Everything is going to change so this situation in your life will also change. So no point in building castles in the air when you are too happy and jumping up and down and also no point in getting depressed when the situation is pathetic." Superb Dada!! Welcome back! Now Stay Connected! JGD! :)
first time i read ur blog n as if it was for me.i was actually messed up with d topic CONNECTION in my life.now satisfied.keep it up.shayd mere jaise loggon ko aise blogs se bhut support milta hai !!!!JGD !:)
Wow thanks for the comment!! Although I am mentioning it after 6 long years!! Still would be worth to know your name! Anonymous!
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